💗🖤 When you hear hooves, think ZEBRA!

Dear Friends and Loyal readers, Are you seeing evidence of your planted seeds coming to fruition? Paradox -an opinion or statement that seems self contradictory, but in reality expresses a truth.  A zebra is recognizable and prized for its stripes. Zebra stripes are...

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💛 I know Why You [Secretly] Hate Your Job

Dear Friends and Loyal Readers, Do you watch the back stories of the athletes during the Olympics? Do you catch yourself watching the entire biography of a figure you may or may not know, or care about, Because it is an amazing story? Why are we so attracted to human...

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❤️ 3 words that will destroy your relationship

Dear Friends and Loyal Readers,  Have you experienced this exchange? "What's wrong?", your partner/friend/sibling/parent/boss/coworker asks. "Nothing", you answer. "Are you okay?", they inquire. "Fine", you respond. "What do you want for dinner?"  "Whatever", as you...

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💜 Where do we go from here?

Dear Friends and Loyal Readers, 2020 has squeezed, imploded and illuminated. Every aspect of your life no longer containing the structural integrity for your next chapter, exposed. Heartache, loss, grief, resentment, or confusion, the emotions of your relationships,...

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In July 2016, I drove up the coast of California to Monterey, inland to I-5, then down to LA. During those 10 days, I stopped to see many friends and family that were available. At the time, what they didn't know, was this was meant as my goodbye. No one knew I had...

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Dealing with Apathy, Boredom, & Indifference

The shock of this COVID shut down gifted us with the time to take inventory of our lives. The people we spend time with, the work we devote energy to, and the activities we engage in. Suddenly, with nowhere to escape,  all the "bad, uncomfortable, painful or wrong"...

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Using and Trusting your INTUITION, INSTINCT, & INTELLECT

While I was pregnant, I watched an interview of six convicted and (jailed pedophiles). What seared in my mind was hearing their account of identifying victims they would prey on and "groom". As nauseous as I felt listening to the details of their horrific plans, I...

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FACING Anger, Rage, & Hatred

Last summer, I found out a close friend had been lying to me for about a year. The kind of lie that stabbed me deep in the heart. I felt confused about whether or not I would remain friends with her. I struggled with letting go of 8 years of friendship, fun, and...

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